# Deebugging.Life

> Free guides and straight answers on running a house with AI. Built in my own house first, then handed over.

Site: https://deebugging.life
Free guide, the Sunday Rundown: https://deebugging.life/sunday/
Free guide, the Monthly Meal Plan: https://deebugging.life/meal-plan/
Template repo: https://github.com/deebehan/home-ops-template
Ask The House: https://askthehouse.life

## Blog posts

- [How to get AI to deal with the school emails](https://deebugging.life/blog/ai-for-school-emails/): Put every school email under one Gmail label, then ask AI to list only what needs you to sign, pay, bring, wear, book or turn up, with dates and which child. Cross-check it against the family calendar and do it once a week.
- [Why ChatGPT keeps forgetting your family (and how to fix it for good)](https://deebugging.life/blog/why-chatgpt-forgets-your-family/): Because AI memory is patchy by design: the app decides what to keep, and saved memories can vanish. The fix is to write your house down in one plain document and give it that to read, instead of hoping it remembers.
- [Is it safe to give ChatGPT your family's information? What to share and what to keep](https://deebugging.life/blog/is-it-safe-to-share-family-information-with-chatgpt/): Some of it is fine to share, and you need a lot less than you think. Give it the shape of the week, keep out full identities, health and money details, and use roles instead of names.
- [Can AI actually help with the mental load? An honest answer](https://deebugging.life/blog/can-ai-help-with-the-mental-load/): Yes, a bit: AI is good at the noticing part of the mental load, like reading the school emails and flagging what's coming. It can't take the responsibility off you unless the rest of the house can see what it sees.
- [How to use AI to organise your family life (without it becoming another job)](https://deebugging.life/blog/use-ai-to-organise-family-life/): Write your house down once, feed the AI your calendars and the school emails, and ask it for one weekly rundown. Then send that rundown to everyone, so you stop being the only one who knows.